Q. I’m a single gay male in my late twenties. I’ve met a guy I really like. We chat all the time and we’re attracted to each other. We haven’t yet been sexually active with each other, but we’re planning to get naked and sweaty (and break out the ropes and blindfolds) over Christmas break. Why do we have a date scheduled for the sex, you ask? Well, because he lives six hours away, and that’s when he’s next coming to visit. But here’s the . . . read more (By Dan Savage)