Q. I am currently dating a guy who is nice, funny, and has a good “dating résumé,” i.e., never married, good job, and no issues. I have a good time when we are together, and he treats me fine. The problem is that we have the most ridiculously boring sex. Super-vanilla, totally predictable, and I never come. There’s no foreplay, he rarely eats pussy, and when he does it’s not good. It’s totally frustrating, but I try not to put too much weight on . . . read more (By Dan Savage)